I agree with most of those complaints.
I hate the retarded combat pathing, outside of combat, it's whatever, allies just teleport around, who cares, but in combat, movement skills seem to be preferentially used to do an hero off a cliff or something. I've been trying to avoid giving my AI controlled characters movement skills after watching Sera do jumping shots off of ledges and Blackwall using his various charges off a bridge into the abyss.
Also, there's a bear like a mile away: Blackwall pls, pls no, pls don't chase the bear, Blackwall y u do dis?
I always get menu bugs too, where the menus are unresponsive unless I tab the game and tab back. So that sucks and I wish it didn't do that, but w/e. I wish ladders/doors didn't show up on ping and if you opened then closed a chest, it would stop showing up on ping so I don't have to pick up trash, same with certain herbs/ores.
Not liking the story in this game, it's really convoluted and forced imo, lots of deus ex machina (skyhold is just like... there... totally abandoned but in otherwise good condition for no clear reason, everyone is super friendly towards the inquistor for... no real reason and most of the party members seem to join me for... no real reason other than that I'm the main character (looking at Iron Bull, Cassandra, and Varric), also most of the quests are dumb and
needs to get out of my game and stop cramping my shit.)
I do like that mages were nerfed a bit compared to Origins though. While they're still good, I rolled two handed warrior in Origins and ended up spending more time playing Wynne, which was stupid.
I haven't actually tried the multiplayer yet because I don't have any friends, it looks weird though and not sure if I want to play it or not?